It’s just one of those days when you wanna be all alone!!!  I have just been in one of those moods lately where I am just very biotchy and hate people.  Okay, it’s not that bad, but I am definatly out of my normal state of mind.  I am typically a very outgoing person and love to be around people.  But, lately I think I just need some “ME” time.

All of my friends yell at me religously about not saying “NO” enough and always being so stinking busy.  So, this weekend I decided to say “NO” to a couple of social gathering that I was suppose to attend.  I was very proud of myself because it felt damn good to just hang out and just relax, but it came and bit me in the booty. 

Now, my friends are retracting their statement and trying to make me feel bad because I do not spend enough time with them.  I think I may be going through a quarter life crisis or something because I would normally care that they are mad.  But, I don’t!  If they cannot except that I am a busy person and do not always have time for them…. well, then that just sucks. 

I am not sure what to do…… I guess I am damned if I do and damned if I don’t!  What is a girl to do?

A few ways to keep the SPARK!  I know we all have busy lives and it’s hard to always be on target when it comes to dating or being married.  I know my relationship tends to fall off in the slump from time to time, but here are somethings that we do in order for us to get back on target:

1. Cook dinner together

2. Head up to Blackhawk and play the slots

3. Go on a picnic

4. Hang out at the dog park

5. Check out the world-of-cocktails (go to different bars and try new drinks)

6. Sporting Events

7. Coor Brewery (SHORT TOUR)

8. Couples Massage

9. Head up to the mountains for breakfast and just walk around

10. Play Board Games or do something competitive

 Let me know if you have any other fun ideas to keep the romance ALIVE? :O)

Jesse and I have offically bet 5 times and here are the results……

Amanda Won Bet about Idol #1

Jesse Won Bet about Idol #2

Amanda Won Bet about Snow

Jesse Won Bet about DWTS

Jesse Won Bet about Snow #2

****I am not good at math, but I think I Jesse is ONLY up by 1!!!!!

Wow, there is something seriously wrong with people!  I had a huge slap in the face today!  Yeah, and it’s not for the obvious reason that I  had to admit Jesse was RIGHT.  HAHA!  But, for having everything that I have been standing up for the past few weeks  reagrding facebook and relationships just come tumbling down. 

Just to recap I have been arguing the fact that men and woman can just be friends and that facebook is not a hook-up site.  I have been stating how I like to keep in touch with old friends and do not care about my old boyfriends and what not.  Well, today we were recapping the story and as we were discussing my facebook chat box opens.  It was from an old flame.  He started hitting on me and telling me how sexy i am and how he missed me.  Not to mention that he is married and we “dated” like 7 years ago. 

Jesse & Intern Ty took over my computer and started talking to the guy on my facebook chat just to see how far this guy would go…………..Let’s just say by the end of it Intern Ty had sent the guy a picture of his booty that looked like my cleavage and in return I recieved a picture of his “unit”!  EEEEEK!  I was mortified….WHO DOES THIS? 

Well, as Jesse has pointed out numerous times A LOT of GUYS.  Glad I could be a victim of one of these scumb bags! I guess SOME MEN just cannot be just “friends” with a woman.  I guess I got proved wrong!  

Jesse & Shotgun think that I am HIGH MAINTENANCE and here is the quiz (PROOF) to show that I am NOT!

Hey…. I cannot make this stuff up!

I have been under the weather for a couple of days and am a little frustrated.  When I get sick I still do all of my everyday duties and more importantly I take care of myself.  I don’t like being bothered I just want to be left alone.  But, MEN on the other hand…….that is a completely different story.  When MEN get SICK the WHOLE freaking world comes to an END!  I am not even exagerating.  They turn into little boys who think that their girlfriends need to be their mother.

I am not the most nurturing person, but I try my best be the good “girlfriend.”  When I get sick just give me a sleeve of saltines and liter of 7up or ginger ale and call it good.   When my man gets sick I have to rub his arm and lay by him and feed him his medicine and butter his saltine crackers.  He calls his mom and tells her that he is sick and then makes sure to tell my mom so that she makes sure I am taking care of him.  Then the best part is my mom calls me and nags on me for not taking care of him the way I should.  It’s simply pathetic!

I am almost done venting!  Hands down the worst part of a man being sick is the puppy dog eyes they give you with this helpless look that makes me just laugh out loud.  That’s all!

I was BUSTED…..AGAIN!  This  social networking thing….SUCKS!  I just keep getting in trouble.  Intern Ty busted me on facebook yesterday and then ratted me out to Jesse & Shotgun.  Seriously Ty, I thought we were friends!  Now I get to be “excercized” or something?  Listen tomorrow and find out how everything goes down… I will keep you posted. 

P.S Please forgive me, I know not what I do…… Oh, wait those are the lyrics for Bryan Adams.  I AM A SINNER!

BUSTED!  So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of years.  When we first started dating it was still “weird” to meet people online.  So, we fabricated this story about how we met at bar.  I totally spaced that we did that just because it had been soooo long ago.  Well, the other day I had mentioned that Tyson and I met on MySpace without even thinking anything of it.  Needless to say, a few members of my family happened to catch the end of the conversation and were SHOCKED! 

I felt horrible because I am not a liar, but at the time I just didn’t want them to think we were crazy!  If it were now we would have told them the truth because it is more “socially acceptable” to say the least.  I apologized, but my mom is still pretty upset with us.  Now, she just keeps asking what else we have been lying to her about….EEEK!  I feel bad, but there is nothing I can do about it now :(       

As you all know by now that this weekend was Spring forward.  I am not a fan of losing the hour of sleep, but I love when it is light out longer.  I always feel more energetic and the best part is that we are one step closer to summer.  This weekend was great because I spent the majority of my time catching up on my sleep.

 I stayed up last night to watch Celebrity Apprentince and fell asleep about 10:05pm.  At about 10:20 I hear my boyfriend screaming at the dog.  I was irrate!  We thought she was having an accident in the bedroom.  So, we got up and started yelling at her until we heard the noise coming from the bathroom.  To my surprise there was water flooding out my vent in both of my bathrooms! 

 My first instinct was to call the 24-hour maintence line.  I called them about 5 times and then was put on hold for about 15 minutes.  I finally got through and this old guy anwsers and says he will be down SHORTLY!  So, I take the elevator up to the person who lives above us and knock on the door.  He tells me that he had a problem with his toliet.  I was like ARE YOU KIDDING ME!  Not only is that disgusting, but DUDE-TURN OFF YOUR WATER since it is flooding our apartment. 

Can I just remind you that I have to wake up at 3:30am! 

I came back down to my apartment and we began to start cleaning up all of the water.  It was about 11:30pm and there was still NO maintence man.  I crawled back into bed and started to fall asleep.  Just when I was out cold a knock was at the door.  It was 12:15am and the maintence man decided to show up.  He asked to come in and see what was going on and I just told him that we cleaned everything up but, they will need to come and assess the ceiling for mold and damage.  He then replied, “We will come look at it tomorrow!”  GEEE… THANKS MAINTENCE MAN!  I could have figured that out and thank you for coming down 2 hours later and telling me nothing helpful.

After he left our apartment he then when up the apartment above us and started making all kinds of noise.  It seriously sounded like chainsaws and flushing toliets.  Needless, to say not only did I lose the 1-hour of sleep from the time change.  I only slept for 1-hour last night.  Good way to start off the week!

Okay, here is the deal.  One of my girlfriends called me the other day and we were just small talking and talking about her love life.  She just got out of a relationship and is all about dating.  I am happy for her since she just got out of a long relationship.  My only issue with this is that I feel like she is using these “random” guys. 

She was discussing how she loves dating because she is getting FREE DINNERS, FREE DRINKS, and FREE MOVIES!  I understand that she is digging this whole dating stage, but I am totally against how she is treataing these guys.  I think the first time you go on a date with someone that you should do it “Dutch Style”!  Which means you each pay for your own meal or split the tab. 

I think it’s really messed up when chicks are just straight “GOLD DIGGERS” and not really into a guy and letting them waste money on them.  Especially when they have no intentions of ever trying to make it work with the guy.  On the other hand, if a guy asks you out and you are legitimately going to date this guy and he offers to pay.  Then it is okay, but she should atleast OFFER to PAY! She doesn’t even offer and just expects EVERYTHING! 

This is just something that I had to vent about!  Why does the guy ALWAYS have to pay?  I just hope there are more woman like me out there that just don’t expect it!